Friday 31 August 2012

A Round-up of Rapists



Discusses that the answer to the question of why men rape is far more complex than once thought. Feminist viewpoint; Behavioralist theory; Types of rapists; Date rapists; Potential rapists; Sexual aggression; Comments from Gordon Nagayama Hall, associate professor of psychology at Kent State who recently coordinated a national forum on rape.
By PT Staff, published on November 01, 1992 - last reviewed on June 20, 2012

The Aroused, The Conqueror, The Angry, The Abused
ASK A FEMINIST WHY men rape and she'll tell you that they are angry and take it out on women. Ask a behavioral researchers why men rape and he says they just get turned on by the wrong stimuli. The answer to the question, however, now looks far more complex.
"For a long time, these two approaches dominated the thinking on why men rape, which is understandable; it would be great to be able to pin sexual aggression on a single cause:' says Gordon Nagayama Hall, Ph.D., associate professor of psychology at Kent State, who recently coordinated a national forum on rape. "But neither of these models explains all types of rape or rapists. As our research has become more sophisticated, other explanations have evolved ."
Disturbing ones at that. Hall and his colleagues have concluded, for example, that more people should be considered potential rapists than previously thought. "Among recent studies, there are varying percentages of men who could be considered potential rapists; one researcher has illustrated that as many as 25 percent of all male college students have engaged in some level of sexually coercive or aggressive behavior."
Hall's own work delineates four major types of rapist.
  • Type 1 is influenced by deviant sexual arousal, which occurs when he has thoughts of violence against women. This type is likely to be extremely impulsive.
  • Type 2 is motivated by cognitive distortions, or thinking errors; he mistakenly interprets events or information differently than other men would. He believes that some women enjoy being raped, or want to be raped. For this type, rape is part of a conquest, a way of demonstrating masculinity. Most date rapists are Type 2s.
  • Type 3, says Hall, is motivated by anger or emotional discontrol. These men are so angry, especially at women, that the only way for them to deal with their anger is to act out sexually toward women. Not surprisingly, this type is the most violent and most dangerous.
  • Type 4 is the repeat offender. He is most likely to have been physically or sexually abused as a child. He has difficulty establishing enduring relationships, and a history of chronic problems in schools or in his family. Type 4 men break a variety of rules, both sexual and nonsexual.
Hall doesn't regard his research-based typology as definitive in identifying who will rape and in treating rapists, particularly repeat offenders. "Rape is much more complex than we've thought. In fact, we don't even have a very good definition of the crime itself. The strict approach is that rape is simply forced intercourse. But rapists engage in other sexually aggressive acts like harassing and fondling that don't incorporate intercourse," Hall explains. He believes that by viewing rape and rapists as multi-determined, "we will not only be able to design more effective treatments, but may be able to help prevent sexual aggression from occurring so frequently."
The bottom line: "We know that sexual aggression can take place between people who are acquaintances, friends, married couples. Men and women need to be very, very clear in their communication with one another exactly what is and isn't okay," Hall says. "Many rapists aren't just dirty old men who offend against strangers; they are often people with whom we share parts of our lives."

Monday 27 August 2012

M McGeoch

An undeniably powerful, disturbing, and brave show which exemplified the horrors of rape on a woman's life. Utmost respect was given to the performer, who, in changing the format of the piece to protect her sanity of the performer, verbally described to the spectators, how the piece would have unfolded. Unfortunately, the run was cut short (as of Thursday evening), but with very good and incredibly justified reason. Although verbally described rather than performed, this piece touched myself and others to our very core, and the performance which was described exemplified a depth of emotional turmoil, and a need for action which I have never experienced in performance before. Such a brave piece by a brave woman, who I have utmost respect for; in respecting herself, her sanity, and her dignity, to stop reliving an incident which was not her fault.

Wednesday 22 August 2012

Deserving 2012 photos









Deserving? Press Release

She is refusing to be a prisoner of her past. Realising that if she doesn't tell her story, someone else might...and they might just tell it wrong...




Deserving? is concerned about standpoints towards rape in some sections of society, ongoing vitim blaming and the lack of understanding surrounding the subject.

UN statistics show that one in five women will suffer rape in their lifetime. Is it not bad enough to be raped? Should we really be made to feel responsible for it too? In an Amnesty International survey, one in three replied that a women was totally or partly responsible for being raped if she was drunk (64% in the Havens wake up to rape survey). The rapist will hopefully serve many years in prison for their act(s) (currently the conviction rate in Scotland is at 7%) but the survivor may well spend his/her lifetime feeling responsible for the theft of their bodily integrity.

With a subject matter as cruel as rape, the theories of Antonin Artaud's'Theatre and its Double' fit like hand in glove. The creation of Deserving? has followed his ideas almost religiously. The show features but one word meant to be understood, therefore avoiding what Artaud calls the "pitfalls in speech and words". It is based heavily in reality so as to "allow the audience to identify with the show breath by breath" and aims to attack their senses. Deserving? uses "violent, physical images" and adds "imagined horrors to existing ones" in order to do everything in its power to "wake us up heart and minds." 

Raped at 15 years of age, whilst on holiday in France, the creator of Deserving? feels she has been training for this piece most of her life. Hiding her pain through the wearing of endless masks she continued a keen involvement in theatre through to her time at Bretton Hall (previous students include three of the four League of Gentleman creators/performers,
Mark Gatiss, Steve Pemberton and Reece Shearsmith and comedian Mark Thomas) and has subsequently committed her life to using theatre and dance to create change.

Thanks to amazing support from the Rape Crisis Centre in Edinburgh, Emma Crews is now ready to fight against rape and use everything she has to help other women free themselves from their guilt. Deserving? is her thank you to EWRASAC and her call to stop us focusing solely on the victims when we desperately need to be paying more attention to the perpetrators and what makes them act so heinously.

Sunday 19 August 2012

http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2012/aug/12/mariella-frostrup-holiday-rape-support#start-of-comments

If I ever needed reminding why I am putting myself through this at least 40 extra reasons are on this Guardian page! Thanks again Mariella! xxx

Saturday 18 August 2012

Ladder Karma

Surely not yet karma...if it was I would've found a new one on the way home. Today we started the arts project at the Barnton Hotel, sadly I had to leave after only an hour or so and spent the next several hours next to the toilet with severe sickness and diarrhea. Then just to perfectly round of an utterly shite day it looks as if someone has walked off with a very good quality aluminium ladder which I will now have to replace - oh the joy of volunteering and trying to make the world a better place!!! I am now going to escape into film land and try to re-find my happy face!

Friday 17 August 2012

Tuesday 7 August 2012

What courage!!!

August the 7th (which also happens to be my lovely sisters 30th birthday) was definitely a truly exhilarating experience! The gorgeous young women who are supporting me in publicising Deserving? were so brave yesterday and proved themselves to be not only incredibly strong but enormously deep too.

Yesterday we did our first day of full blown dancing etc on the Royal Mile and one of my friends who is supporting me with the publicity broke down in tears, then when we got back to dansebase (who are kindly allowing us to use their facilities to change etc) the other one broke down too and all three of us sat in the shower together - shower wasn't on and we were still in our costumes - and sobbed our hearts out!


It sounds like punishment but I am positive that it is in fact cathartic, especially because we all feel so empowered by taking this subject on and doing everything we can to highlight the issues surrounding it. We felt utter exhilaration during most of the street show and complete satisfaction and release after our tears!


Photos to follow!




Some amazing words of other people's wisdom!

http://edinburgheye.wordpress.com/2012/07/08/rape-is-not-unspeakable/
Fabulous Edinburgh slut walks and an even better explanation!


The erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women.
It has been made into the confused, the trivial, the psychotic, the plasticized
sensation. For this reason, we have often turned away from the exploration and
consideration of the erotic as a source of power and information, confusing it with
its opposite, the pornographic. But pornographic is a direct denial of the power of the
erotic, for it represents the suppression of true feeling. Pornography emphasises sensation 
                       without feeling.          Audre Lorde. Uses of the Erotic


It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked...You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.

Khalil Gibran


                


Thursday 2 August 2012

Edinburgh


I'm emotionally and physically whacked, I feel like I have been punched several times in the face, wrists and hips. I spend my days creating theatre about rape and have created a monster in wanting to use a universal language to discuss this subject!
I was raped when I was 15 ok, ok, so a lot of people have been raped and it's horrible and humiliating but why do I feel this overwhelming need to shout about it? Obviously not having spoken about it for several years afterwards plays a part but what I really believe has driven me to do this are the views of many people in our society. Some of these views make me so angry I feel like I am going to explode and they come out of no-where like when I'm reading a newspaper or discussing recent occurrences with friends, one minute I'm having a nice day and then next minute I'm back there with my butt in the air. I want to exorcise this anger and I want anyone else who has lived in shame since being raped to do so too.
Being raped is bad enough but being made to feel responsible for it too is possibly yet more damaging; we carry guilt for hurting ourselves. We are led to believe two things as women; one that we should make ourselves look beautiful and sexy but two that if we do so we are likely to be sending a message that we want to have sex at any time and with anyone. The latter, I’m afraid is just not true I want to have sex but I want to choose when and who with. Either we should be educating our children to cover up completely and protect themselves from the monsters in our community or we should revel in our beauty, shout from the roof tops that sex is wonderful and work harder to create better people who don’t steal other peoples’ sexual integrity. The theatre, for me, is the only place we are likely to change this and what better place than the Edinburgh Fringe Festival?!